Adoption Can be a Tough Road
Just got done reading another adoptive blog, and I'm reminded of a couple different stories. We have good friends at Church who adopted an older child while they lived in Colorado. He is now 17, and I really like the kid. He is gifted in certain areas, is kind, and nice, but he is a terrible student, and like a lot of teens, has issues with listening to his parents, being rebellious, and he struggles with personal demons. But I look at his parents, who have two very young biological children, with great admiration, because they are so upbeat. They are also tired of these antics, tired of the problems, etc. I have another friend who adopted a young boy from Russia 5 years ago. He said 5 years after the adoption, the kid still lies, blatantly, even though he has been reminded over and over about this behavior. He still laughs when others are hurt, forgetting that people getting hurt is not funny. No doubt these are institutional behaviors....